Friction Can Be Progress
Friction: Reaction of two surfaces
There are two possible outcomes to friction (a clash of views) – either stubbornness or progress.
The outcome will depend on our level of understanding.
The Buddha’s advice was to admit to suffering, which leads us to realise the cause of suffering and to the path to enlightenment, free from suffering. The cause of suffering is a belief in a mental construct of self.
We need a catalyst for guidance to point us in the right direction, through the levels of understanding. This comes in the form of friction in our interaction with others, and is the real Dharma. Those who are content with the existing state of affairs do not experience friction unless they step outside their circle.
It is our reaction that tells us whether we are progressing or resisting.
Are we confident (heaven) or suspicious (hell)?