Where does love actually come from?

 Love comes from joy.
Joy comes from confidence.
Confidence comes from knowing.
Knowing comes from awareness.
Awareness comes from recognising
pure essence.

 Love is our Nirmanakaya aspect – manifestation.
Awareness is our Sambhogakaya aspect – clarity.
Essence is our Dharmakaya aspect – emptiness.

 Love is recognising the true aspects of one’s being.
Then recognising that in others.
Then recognising what is unnoticed in others
and clarifying.
That is unconditional love.

 (anything else is just jumpy groins!)

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