When Damage No Longer Controls Our Life

We all go through traumas, creating wounds that so-called gurus laugh at – and that, in itself, creates trauma. Been there, felt that. When we realise the way this affects us and how we suffer, change occurs when we see that everyone, including gurus, is damaged.

Realising that we are a nobody is one of the most painful yet transformative experiences a person can go through, shifting their perspective from initial despair to profound mental liberation.

While initially it may feel like a quiet, persistent ache of being overlooked or realising that no one is coming to save us or fix our life, accepting this insignificance eventually strips away the crushing pressure of social performance.

It marks the exact boundary where we stop living by someone else’s script,
and finally claim the absolute freedom to write our own.