HAVING DIFFICULTY IN BEING YOURSELF?

Having Difficulty in Being Yourself?

Do you find it difficult being yourself…in company? We are expected to play a part; there are films that portray humans beings taken over by aliens and, to be safe, you have to act like them…so they don’t getcha!

Of course, we have to understand what the ‘self’ in the title actually is. ‘Self’ is a mental, created identity that obscures our essential pure nature, and is mistaken for reality.

However – this is what we have to work with!!!
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(This is so important I just had to put it in red)

This is so…so…important…OUR path is OUR confusion – not someones else’s. We have to experience whatever WE experience, and therefore trying to look better in the eyes of others is merely playing with madness. There are ‘aliens’ everywhere! Be happy being you, warts and all.

There is insanity in the world…there is even evil. How do we find our own sanity within this insanity?

For a start, we don’t join in! Before we can deal with global insanity, we must first secure our own sanity. Without this, we are just part of the madness. We cannot fight thoughts with thoughts, as the result will merely be another thought. We need to be able to step outside the activity area, which means going beyond, into the realm of clarity – into clear light – pure perception.

We are born with certain karmic tendencies. Accept them! Experience them! Enjoy them! All too often, we want to be taken more seriously: we want to be recognised for our good qualities – which are merely cultural ideas in the heads of others on the maintenance of madness πŸ˜‰ This obsessive fixation will only cause us suffering.

Some paths are filled with flowers and glorious views. Some just have a bit dust and not much to look at. You know who will linger on their path, and whose path may be coming to an end. πŸ™‚

Be happy with the way you are.
Be of benefit to others
and cause no harm.

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2 Responses to HAVING DIFFICULTY IN BEING YOURSELF?

  1. tony's avatar tony says:

    …The problem with not accepting ourself, (which is a product from our past) is that we feel guilty,
    and guilt paves the way from all the negative emotions to creep back in. That is why we go round in cyclic existences.

    Tony

  2. Daisy's avatar daisymae21 says:

    Hello Tony
    May I share an example of what I think you’re saying here – it’s a little banal but could (hopefully!) be taken as a metaphor for a deeper meaning.
    I spent years being ashamed of my body. I love swimming, but it’s only in the past 20 years that I’ve been able to prance around in a swimming costume without fear of what others may think! I felt I had to be the way they wanted me to be – perfect, hairless and wrinkle-free skin, overall even tan, curves in the right places. Then I suddenly realised:
    – perfection is unattainable in the physical – even the most beautiful people on the planet are not happy about the way they look. In the communal changing rooms, it’s invariably the young and gorgeous women that go into the private booths to change. We – the old and ugly – don’t care any more, and we can have a laugh about out wobbly bits!
    – people may judge my body and momentarily, it may might them feel slightly better about theirs, but I realised that I will be forgotten 10 seconds later as they turn away and get on with their own life. Why should I allow that momentary fleeting judgement to stop me doing what I enjoy?
    – I had been nursing a sneaky desire to be part of the “accepted” group and I realised what pressure that would entail
    Thanks!
    Daisy

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