GENUINE INNER PEACE

Genuine Inner Peace

Genuine inner peace is available at any moment. Not a temporary affair, but the real thing. This blogger cannot claim to have genuine peace at every moment, but merely an understanding that it is accessible.

The obstacles to inner peace are ‘residential’ emotions – an overall feeling that we are stuck with, and which includes anxiety, doubts, desire, expectations, fear, pride, jealousy: that is our unique path.

Designing a system where one does this, this and this and one will achieve inner happiness, inner peace, doesn’t work because we all have obstacles of varying densities. One could say different capacities and different levels, but it’s more than that. It’s to do with the strength of our programming and our ability, tenacity and honesty in dealing with that. It’s simple, but not easy.

Whether habitual emotions are occurring or not, genuine happiness is always available to us. In essence, our very nature is – and has always been – happiness. This is what the Dharma is all about, and the material on this blog offers a feel of how this happiness is self-existing. This does not mean that our outer life will be hunky dory, but our view will be clearer by understanding that all appearances are temporary phenomena that can nevertheless still be enjoyed. This basically comes from understanding that awareness has a finer reality of being pure awareness, empty of being contaminated by thoughts and emotions. Thoughts and emotions will still arise but we don’t hold on to them or cling to them obsessively, as we did when we were ignorant of these arisings. In understanding that all sentient beings have these same obstacles and the same potential of pure happiness, compassion arises.

By merely recognising the obstacles to awareness, they drop away for a moment, and there is a sense of relief and a release from being sophisticated. Gradually, with recognition, this inner happiness is recognised to be available all the time because it is our true nature.

The problem arises when we expect our inner and outer lives to match up. It is this expectation that creates suffering. The first noble truth of the Buddha is the recognition that we are suffering, and that there is a cause to that suffering, which is the second noble truth. When we finally admit that life is ‘poo’, we will want to do something about it! That is the third noble truth. Finding our path is the fourth noble truth.

Our progress will depend upon how strongly we see things, and ourselves.

We have to accept and recognise that we experience both absolute reality, and a conventional, human reality: one never changes while the other is in a constant state of change. In the moment of dropping our expectations in life, genuine happiness is present – genuine inner peace – and we can dip in any time we choose. We have to understand, however, how the present moment came about: it was due to our past actions, so wanting it to be different is unreasonable, although we can affect the future through our understanding now.

As we progress, life becomes simpler and there is more time and space to acknowledge this inner peace. Seeking good company helps; the company of others who wish to experience the same thing. Dare I say it…this blog is one such place 🙂 but it’s better to find a group and be face to face (although of course, being part of a group brings its own problems, even though the inner peace is still present!). If we go step by step at our own pace, we will get it! We start from where we are, and refine. For that, we need support.

I worry about writing this blog as it might interfere with someone’s progress, but you found your way here. It is always up to you. The Buddha said, “Don’t take my word for it. Test it for yourself”.

It’s good to start with questions.
The Buddha’s teachings always stand to reason.

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Dzogchen Retreat UK, Tsoknyi Rinpoche 1 – 7 August 2016

Dzogchen Retreat, Tsoknyi Rinpoche 1 – 7 August 2016

 “A Dzogchen Guide to Living Fearlessly in an Unsettled World.”
Kingswood School, Bath, UK.

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WHAT IS BUDDHISM?

What is Buddhism?

This will depend on our understanding. For some, it is a religion, and for others, it’s a philosophy. For some it is a science, and for others, rebellion. For some, it is the teachings of the Buddha, while for others, it is a superior understanding. For some, it is the means to realising our true nature, and for others it is being with the good guys. It can be all of these, or something else: it could even be a way to understand what Jesus meant by ‘God’!

Buddhism is a system for anyone at any stage of evolution to realise what true reality is – pure awareness, our pure nature of being. ‘Pure’ is empty of self-evaluations, and without pure awareness, none of the above would be known!

At the bottom of the mountain, there is much to say. As we ascend in realisation, there is less and less to say. There are times when we cannot see the top as there are many overhangs, but our motivation keeps us true on our path.

All systems take a different route, some being direct, and some more indirect: much depends on what we feel comfortable and safe with. Until we reach the top, all systems have a partial view – ‘partial’ because we stick to a system of words and phrases and does and don’t, and rely on an element of belief. In addition, because we do not see that others are climbing their path their way and will review their method at some point, we have no need to criticise (even though they may seem to be descending). In criticism, we are in fact descending: criticism is different from discernment, which is learning from others’ mistakes. We can only benefit them by climbing well ourselves.

At the top, the view is limitless. Anyone can see ‘all views’ at once.

Buddhism is realising Ground, Path, Fruition.

The ground is our true nature.
The path is our confusion about that true nature.
The fruition is realising
that there was never any confusion,
that the path never existed
and that we were the ground all the while.

There never was any confusion, path or mountain.

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OTHERS’ EUPHORIA, ECSTASY, HEAVEN, DEVOTION

Others’ Euphoria, Ecstasy, Heaven, Devotion

People have feelings.
They may appear to get carried away with their feelings:
that’s just the way they feel.

We may not feel that way.
We may get carried away with our feelings about their feelings:
that’s just the way we feel.

The height of euphoria, ecstasy, heaven, devotion is a genuine expression of the total dissolution of the I – free fall – weightless – carrying no load!
There’s nothing to hold on to.

As we still have a little ego, there is a quiet joy, which is inspired and instructional.

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MASTER OF LIGHT OR SLAVE TO DARKNESS

Master Of Light or Slave To Darkness

In prayers, we ask for light (clarity), but also protection. We ask that all evil and ill-will be pacified.

We might assume that this means outer evils, but it also addresses our inner evils. If we are not alert, our informed cleverness might be a carrier of the dark lord’s bidding: ‘dark lord’ = universal selfishness that keeps sentient beings bound to sensuality. Sensuality can be part of our path as long as we don’t become addicted, as this causes suffering.

If we are vague or have an intellectual understanding, we can fall prey to gossip or speculation. We might believe that we do no harm, but the problem lies in thinking that we are masters of light when this acquired idea that we are the light is, in fact, the root of darkness. We need to go beyond this and that. Tricky isn’t it?!

If we only see others’ faults, then we move into darkness.
If we lack empathy, then we move into darkness.
If we want to be admired, then we move into darkness.
If we manipulate, then we move into darkness.

Dark is only known by virtue of light.
Light is only known by virtue of shadows.

If everything was light, we wouldn’t be able to see anything.
Likewise, if everything was dark, we wouldn’t be able to see anything.

Because of the unity of these two, things are known.

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CONFOUND OUR ENEMIES WITH…LOVE

Confound Our Enemies With…Love

Confound = amaze, astonish, dumbfound, stagger, surprise, startle, stun, stupefy, daze, nonplus; throw, shake, unnerve, disconcert, discompose, dismay, bewilder, set someone thinking, baffle, mystify, bemuse, perplex, puzzle, confuse…

Our = that to which we relate.

Enemies = demonic selfishness reflected by self and others.

Love = bypassing the selfish games and talking to their essence.

What we see is what we get.

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THE BUDDHA REFLECTS OUR TRUE NATURE

The Buddha Reflects Our True Nature

We have to look to see if this is true.

By looking for more, we become distracted, preferring to wander off on a vague path that seems interesting. We will never realise the simple truth of pure, uncontaminated awareness: that which is looking is our destination! We need confirmation that this fact is true. A teacher may say, “You’re right,” but that is only ‘right’ in our current understanding. Gradually, we refine and our lives move towards simplicity where there is less distraction, so that we can refine our refinement. It is we who confirm our own understanding.

As we progress and refine, there are fewer people to whom we can relate. This is why we need to be assured that we know our path. That requires us to be honest.

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DO GOOD, DO NO HARM, TAME THE MIND

Do Good, Do No Harm, Tame The Mind

The Buddha Said,
“Do Good, Do No Harm, Tame The Mind”.

How do we do this? Simply choose a prayer or mantra such as ‘Om Mani Padme Hung’ which, as the mantra of the Lord of Compassion, Chenrezi, symbolises compassionate energy.We chant this in the mind or on the breath, and send it out in all directions in the form of light, to the enlightened ones in the universe. This light reflects back on us in the form of blessings, and we then send it out to all sentient beings. The light returns and is sent out again to the enlightened ones. Thus we become a conduit.

In this one action, we are doing good, we are doing no harm and, as we are focusing on what we’re doing, we’re taming the mind.

This can be done with any prayer we wish. Whether it actually does any good for anyone else, we can’t say, but it generates a tremendous motivation within our mind and heart, and that in turn generates great merit and influences our compassionate activity.

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UNDERSTANDING CHAOS

Understanding Chaos

“I don’t understand.”

Chaos is total confusion.
Chaos: complete disorder, vast chasm, void.
Total openness to a situation.

In pure experience, there is neither comprehension nor understanding; there is merely raw, first hand experience. Our wish to understand and name, obscures the pure experience. Any words used to describe experience belittle that experience.

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Some call this a flower…:D

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NO PATH, NO JOURNEY, NO DESTINATION

No Path, No Journey, No Destination

We are here now.

So what obscures ‘now’? Nothing. Absolutely nothing of any substance. Emotions arise to protect the false idea of ‘me and mine’: pride, jealousy, desire, fear, hatred and ignorance obscure nowness. As long as it’s all about me and mine, we will have a path, a journey and a destination.

Everything written or spoken about spirituality says the same thing, time after time, because we believe we are obscured. We aren’t. We are just distracted, moment by moment, by illusory deviations.

When we “fetch water, chop wood” there is nothing to think about: no emotions, no obscurations, no path, no journey and no destination.
When it’s my wood and my water, there are emotions, obscurations, a path, a journey and a destination.

The throne of enlightenment is not out there; it is here now, more or less.
Religions say we have to do this and that.|
Spirituality says drop this and that.

The path is our confusion. This is merely an inner conflict within the everlasting kingdom of enlightenment and a temporary blip on the radar.
The journey is wanting to do something, because we are confused.
The destination is not realising that we have been here all the time.

Crazy but true.
Getting it wrong is the key to understanding.
Being spoonfed*, we remain nappy bound.

*provide someone with so much help or information that they do not need to think for themselves.

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TEACHING IS COMMUNICATION

Teaching Is Communication

It is passing on information,
and we all communicate in one way or another.

Whether verbally or non-verbally, we are constantly picking up information and signals. Our motivation is the driving force as to what we tune in to – how we ‘surf’ – so it is usually more of the same. In the first instant, communication is based on openness, which is love. We want to be at one, but then a cue in the communication sends up warning signals – and the love waivers.

Usually we want just enough communication in order to agree, smile and walk on: any more and it can become uncomfortable. It depends on what we can all handle. When the love is fresh and bright, we should let it go so as not to smother. If we try to hang on, we might start to disagree and aversion arises – or we agree and desire arises.

A problem may occur when we realise that the other person knows more about a subject: depending on how this is expressed, we are either attracted or repulsed. Enthusiasm can either enrich or smother: it can appear to others as a useful tool or a weapon :D. Both are teachings, as our reactions are telling us something about ourself. This is the real dharma. This is real crazy wisdom.

There are times when whatever we say will repulse another. This is because we are not in tune with their motivation, their philosophy or their beliefs, and so we need to be very skilful in communication. We drop in a little signal and see if the cue is picked up. If it’s not, we leave it alone. The same information can be received on many levels. It can go to the head/mind/consciousnesses or connect with the heart/uncontaminated purity. Less is more: open space allows more in!

It’s all about clarifying what another already knows – but first we have to be clear our self! Whatever is being communicated has to make sense to the other.

This space of love can feel uncomfortable because we are touching someone else’s longings, and they can feel vulnerable. That is when we have to be worthy of trust.

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WHAT IF ENLIGHTENMENT WAS ONLY…

What If Enlightenment Was Only…
realising the true nature of self and all phenomena.

Which is?
That our imagined self and all phenomena
are empty of true existence:
they are all a fabrication and there is nothing more than that.

Is ‘Enlightenment’ being enlightened about these matters, and the obstacles to realising spiritual insight?

And if so, so what?
A realisation of this means that we do not become attached to our ideas of self and phenomena: we do not take these seriously, as they are the cause of suffering. The suffering of others, however, we do take seriously, using the four enlightened, compassionate activities of pacifying, magnetising, enriching and destroying in order to bring about the cessation of suffering of mind games (search ‘four enlightened activities’ for details).

What if there are no miracles, no flying, no walking on water, no leaving imprints on rock, etcetera etcetera? After all, if these are not experienced by us, then they are just in our imagination: they are a belief, a story, and of no practical benefit (we’ve been to Padmasambhava’s cave and seen the ‘foot imprints’ on the ground – it had no effect on us whatsoever).

For some, visuals are important. They act as metaphors, figures of speech, figurative expressions, images, allegories, parables, analogies, symbols, emblems, word paintings to convince a certain type of mindset. But if we are not careful, these become ‘sticking posts’ created by hope and fear.

Does the understanding that our imagined self and all phenomena are empty of true existence have a simplifying effect on the mind? Does it bring about a deep sense of relief? Because that is what it is all about, and nothing else.

Could we be doing too much, chasing after experiences that will never satisfy?

Are we not like hungry ghosts? These beings are symbolised as creatures with large bellies, thin necks and tiny mouths, craving more than they can cope with.

We can spend an awful lot of time either speculating or blindly accepting that these things did happen. This creates a heavy load of expectations which can either pull us down or propel us into a realm of fantasy. We may feel guilt that we aren’t doing things properly, when we can have direct experience that is simply for this age. Maybe in the past, these things did happen but they’re not happening now, so they can only be used as metaphors which need to be dropped in order that we do not become over-fascinated and attached.

What do those of enlightened understanding do?
Earn their daily bread and wash the dishes.

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OUR LIFE IS JUST A STORY

Our Life Is Just A Story

We become so involved in and obsessed by our story – our life – that we don’t bother about how the story started, and where it will end. When we were young, we acquired an idea about ourselves. That idea became a habit. That habit became a personality. That personality became our destiny. Change the idea, change our destiny.

At any moment we can change our bias as, at every moment, we are maintaining it. If we are honest and unhappy with the direction in which we are heading, we can change this. Meditation clears the air. If, on the other hand, we are happy with our ‘arrangement’, then why change?

If we find that we lack empathy with others, if we find that we need to be admired, if we find that we manipulate situations, we may also find we have narcissistic tendencies of self-admiration. Who are we trying to impress?

If we consider ourselves intelligent, we are considering ourselves more intelligent than others: this is both arrogant and lacking in empathy. Is that the story we want to tell?

If our story contains a sense of empathy, where we understand how someone else may feel, this will enrich both parties as, when we are honest about our problems, this can encourage others to open up.

Getting it out in the open is part of clearing the air. I have a problem with the way in which Buddhism is presented (but I love the teachings of enlightened beings). There. I’ve admitted it. And that has changed my destiny.

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ANYTHING DIRTY CAN BE CLEANED!

Anything Dirty Can Be Cleaned!
Says it all really.
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(It’s a saying of my wife’s)

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RESPONDING TO A HOSTILE WORLD

Responding To A Hostile World

If we want to solve a problem, we need to analyse the problem closely. If we leave this to others, then we become part of their analysis! People are dying prematurely through the use of weapons, chemicals, under-eating, over-eating, stress…and the smug don’t notice this.

The world should be a happy place. So what (or who) is causing all the trouble in the world? This is tricky, because we first have to start by looking at our selves – our divided selves. Me and my shadow. The pure essence of mind and the contents of mind. We need to understand how protective we are about these ‘me and mine’ concepts. Then we can look at the world, the collective.

We have to accept that humans divide themselves into groups – ‘us’ and ‘them’. Some see things one way and others another, and we are born into groups and cultures. We may decide against our group, and find we’ve joined another group. ‘Analysts’ have got this all sewn up!

With a good heart and intelligence, we can appreciate the differences in music, food, holidays, arts, spiritual matters – and even religious and political views.

But something happens and the differences become exaggerated, and hatred can even arise. What is this ‘something happens’? There are two reasons – fear and desire. These stem from the one basic ignorance, of being unaware of our true nature of essence love. We are not different in essence, only in expression. We can actually express love in everything we do, but unfortunately, because of lack of understanding and claims of ‘love’, our expression is tainted.

There is another reason for social disruption,
and that is that third parties seeking gain by dividing people.

How does one deal with this? By being aware, we don’t become party to the division of ‘us’ and ‘them’. The way the world is, is the way the world is, at this moment in time. The outward manifestations and subversive causes of the horrors being committed in the world are traumatising people so that they don’t know which way to turn. This results in chaos and confusion, and we can therefore be easily controlled, which results in more suffering.

Strangely enough, this very suffering is the spur to look into the causes of suffering. These are the first two noble truths of the Buddha.

This is why it is said that, in the Kali Yuga – the age of strife – we can make the fastest progress, because the Dzogchen teachings have been made available and understandable. It is also said that, when the age of peace comes, people will be less interested in the Dzogchen teachings and as a consequence, they will be more difficult to access.

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THE HEART OF DZOGCHEN

The Heart of Dzogchen
The pointing out instruction is letting go.
Awareness looks, sees and drops.

Traditionally, the gesture (non-verbal) for the pointing out instruction is: the teacher holds his/her palms up to show looking out. They then turn the palms to face inward, to show seeing. They then drop the palms onto the thighs, to show dropping. That’s it. That is the pointing out instruction. But it sounds so ordinary that it just doesn’t register…pity.

Ordinariness is satisfying in that there is absolutely no pressure. This is why we constantly miss the point of the pointing out instruction. The pointing out instruction really, really, really is looking, seeing and dropping…letting go…not following…not being captured by anything impermanent.

All that is left is….!

That is what the Dharma is all about. Nothing complicated and nothing elaborate. It is precisely because it appears to be so ordinary that the mind does not see it or trust it, and therefore we look for something more mysterious: we need convincing so, in the relative world, it comes with elaborations and complications, and is built up so that everything can then be destroyed.

All that is left is…!

What is?
That which is real.

What is ‘real’?
Pure awareness.

What is ‘pure awareness’?
Is-ness.

What is, ‘is’?
To be.

What is, ‘to be’?
Pure awareness.

There’s no getting away from pure awareness, is there?
It is absolute ordinariness, without embellishments.
It is the heart of the Dharma.
It is the heart of Dzogchen.

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REMEMBER – WE ARE HAPPY BEINGS

Remember – We Are Happy Beings
Let no thing steal your inner joy.

We are so conditioned to desire fulfilment that we engage in excessive activity which leads to frustration and in fact, addiction, and this creates our destiny.

As Lao Tzu said,
Watch your thoughts, they become words;
watch your words, they become actions;
watch your actions, they become habits;
watch your habits, they become character;
watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”

Our activities – beyond the necessary – merely fill time and space. We occupy emptiness because we fear boredom: this is the tiring cycle of human existence. We are so obsessed with our achievements that we forget the joy of just being.

Well, I’m happy when I achieve something!”
“True, but then you want to achieve something else, thus merely repeating a pattern.”

Happiness is just here, now, resting in perfect absorption. It’s so nice when everything stops and we come to rest. We get glimpses of this from time to time, but unfortunately we associate these with particular activities or places: of course, some places and activities are more conducive to perfect stillness, but we quickly return to the old habits of seeking happiness and satisfaction in some thing. This doesn’t mean we cannot enjoy ourselves: just don’t let it become all-consuming, taking over life, otherwise this becomes not only our destiny, but also our fate.

Unfortunately, we have a vague idea of what happiness is, and so we spend our precious time looking to see what others are doing, and then attempt to outdo them. Happiness that relies on conditions is futile. “I’m happier than you!” is merely more enslavement to addiction, a samsaric god.

It is sad that we are looking for something that we already are. Happiness is merely contentment in being.

Boring!”
“You have just explained the reason for your imprisonment perfectly.”

Wanting more than is necessary is a product of an over-agitated society, in which everything becomes a competition. If we are not content to take the lower seat, or know when enough is enough, we indulge ourselves and our subtle body becomes stressed with misplaced energies. Can you feel the tension in your facial muscles at this moment?

Outer circumstances may be discouraging, but inner joy is always present. In a relative sense, we have to accept that the world isn’t perfect.

Our bodies, our minds and the world may suffer,
but pure awareness of this suffering is not suffering.
It is just aware.
It is the sane centre of a healthy, happy mind.

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MAKING SENSE OF DZOGCHEN

Making Sense Of Dzogchen
is nonsense
😀

Dzogchen is a Tibetan word for a style of experiencing the essence of compassionate, primordial purity of luminous awareness. It’s what we actually are; the reality of being.

Other styles have other names: all practices of doing ‘something’ are to arrive at this self-aware, pure, awakened nature.

It’s just there, waiting to be recognised.
By whom?
Itself!

This gentle simplicity sends waves of contentment throughout the body and mind.
“Is that all?”
“That’s all.”
“What a relief.”
Meanwhile we have to accept that we still won’t give up trying to make sense of it all. 😀

Why nonsense? Dzogchen is the ultimate state and so there are no more questions.
Non-doing is letting go, or surrendering: we are letting go or surrendering to an opponent or powerful influence that is found not to exist: we are no longer fighting this imaginary ‘I’. We are at once the prisoner and the jailer, and therefore we have the key – and the door opens.

However, can we just walk away with the key when we notice that other prison doors are still locked?

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IS OUR KARMA OUR GUIDE?

Is Our Karma Our Guide?

The recognition that we are seeing through a habitual bias is an extremely subtle business: “we see through a glass darkly”. We needn’t feel guilty about this because the moment that we become aware of this mechanical intrusion, we wake up for a moment: we truly wake up when we become aware of awareness that is pure and empty.

Unfortunately, it seems that when we become aware that we are just repeating ourselves – going through the motions – we feel embarrassed and justify with more of the same. This is especially so if we do not have the understanding and vocabulary to explain honestly how we feel. Firstly, we have to recognise and know what is going on, and step aside.

Every movement we make in body, speech and mind is a product or result of our past actions. We built the picture. We are so rehearsed in our acting, and have learned and repeated our lines for so long that the actions of body, speech and mind just spew out. Of course, this is easier to see in others than ourselves, but can serve as a reminder: it is the dust in our own eye that matters.

The results of karma (programming) are happening at every moment, and at every moment we are creating more of the same. As this is continuous at every moment – each moment creating the next – awareness can cut through this continual chain reaction at any moment. It is the awareness that creates a pause and staggers our response. This staggering breaks up our reactions. We don’t just go into full flow along our well-worn tracks: we take a second or two to evaluate, and sometimes we may have to pull the emergency cord and bring the whole train of events to a halt.

When shunyata (emptiness) is known, then anything that interrupts shunyata is our guide back to shunyata. This is ‘goodness’ or ‘rightness’. ‘Badness’ or ‘wrongness’ is indulging and obsessing about the thing that is interrupting the clear view.

Conscience, intuition, intention could be seen either as our own awareness, or as deity activity, guardian angel activity. Whatever suits our way – and works – must be right. I’m always having to correct myself – or do I have a guardian angel that reveal my karmic attitude? Who knows? Things happen in life and we might wonder, “How did that come about?” The law of attraction or the law of repulsion? Who knows?

Everything that happens is our teacher.

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COLLECTIVE NARCISSISM

Collective Narcissism

Narcissistic groups could be an extension of individual narcissism, although this may not necessarily be the case. There are also groups within groups, which gives rise to in-group bias.

Narcissism is self love. One could call the Kali Yuga the “Age of Narcissism”: the Mahabharata speaks of this “age of strife”. Because of this attitude, people are easily divided and controlled by narcissistic groups that are more powerful. There is much to explore in this subject, beginning with our own self-esteem. Unfortunately, spiritual groups – as well as religions and everyone else – display characteristics of this disorder. There’s a lot of it about! 😀 😀 😀

There doesn’t seem much we can do about a narcissistic world other than be aware of being drawn into its ‘social web’.

Signs of Narcissism:

  • Having an exaggerated sense of self-importance.
  • Expecting to be recognized as superior, even without achievements that warrant it.
  • Exaggerating your achievements and talents.
  • Being preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate.
  • Believing that you are superior and unique, and can only be understood by or associate with equally special people.
  • Requiring constant admiration.
  • Having a sense of entitlement.
  • Expecting special favours and unquestioning compliance with your expectations.
  • Taking advantage of others to get what you want.
  • Having an inability or unwillingness to recognise the needs and feelings of others.
  • Being envious of others and believing others envy you.
  • Behaving in an arrogant or haughty manner.

 

This is why the Buddha said,
‘Do good.
Do no harm.
Tame the mind’.

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BEING PRECISE IN PRACTICE

Being Precise In Practice

If we are going to tame the mind,
we have to be as precise as we can.

If we are not to do harm,
we have to be as precise as we can.

Focusing on the Buddha’s teachings,
we have to be as precise as we can.

Sloppiness creates fuzzy edges;
essence is out of focus.

Focusing on the empty nature of mind
requires penetrating insight.

If we need a holiday,
have a holy day!

Holy days are simply remembering precisely
not to forget.

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WHAT IS SPIRITUALITY?

What Is Spirituality?
It is pure, empty awareness.

We are spirituality. We are ethereal beings, caught and held by concepts; because of this, we are imprisoned in a physical form.

Ethereal: extremely delicate and light in a way that seems not to be of this world.

In essence, we are not ‘humans’, but aliens – universal beings. Our spaceship is the bardo. Our destination is everywhere, as we are constantly travelling because we forget where we’re going, and we are constantly refuelling with karma, the driving force. When we exhaust all our fuel – karma – we have arrived at our destination of enlightenment. (Search “bardo” for details.)

Ethereal spirit is awareness, before and beyond thoughts and concepts. A red cars passes by, and essence just sees without comment, before the ego mind steps in and translates, judges, names and chatters. It’s that simple! By the time we have identified with the object, we have forgotten ourselves. We are caught and held. It is happening at every moment, and at any moment we can escape. It’s that simple. Just let go.

In the bardo teachings, it is said that, before birth, at the moment of conception, our karma attracts or drives us to take on a form somewhere in the universe. If we are fortunate enough to take a human form, we have all the requirements for enlightenment. That’s if we have eyes to see, and ears to hear.

Our reaction may be, “Oh, you’re saying that I am the cause of my suffering and bad conditions! How can you say such a thing? It hurts me.”

That very reaction reveals a limited view, showing our habitual identification with a human body and mind. All of us are ethereal beings, caught and held by concepts; because of this, we are imprisoned in a physical form.

Spiritually speaking, if viewed inspirationally, this suffering we experience could be the final piece of our karma exhausting itself. The last one before enlightenment! Maybe it’s not…but it shows good attitude and intention. 🙂 It all depends on how we see ourselves and our condition, and the concepts we are holding on to.

Mara/demons will flatter or create fear in us, but they can only influence the mind to stay caught and held: Mara also feeds off our pride and fear. Ethereal essence is not a thing with parts: it is not of this world, but is pure awareness.

It can only be distracted, and have its spaceship refuelled with karma.

“Houston, I’ve run out of fuel. I won’t be coming back…” 😀

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THE COCOON OF NO CIRCUMFERENCE

The Cocoon Of No Circumference
Emptiness that envelops everything

Meditation is being thought-free, and not thought-less.

Thought-free is being free of thoughts – spacious – clear – light – with limitless joy and compassion.
The cocoon of no limitations.

Thought-less is being absent minded – careless – insensitive – misguided – joyless and compassionless.
The cocoon of limitations.

Rules are methods to guide us.
Rule: from the Latin regula, meaning ‘straight stick’.

However, they are a guide and not rigid dogma. We have to know when to be bendy 🙂
Bendy: capable of bending; soft and flexible.

It’s like this ~~~~~~~~~~!

We know the direction in which to go, but we can be flexible, either by cutting through or manoeuvring around obstacles. We can swing away and we can recross our guide line. It’s not stiff – and it’s much more fun!

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CAN ROBOTS HAVE CONSCIOUSNESS?

Can Robots Have Consciousness?

From a Buddhist perspective, yes they can.

If we regard consciousness as the ‘be-all and end-all’, then we have a very limited view of ourselves. If we are using the word ‘consciousness’ to mean ‘aware’ then yes, robot machines can be aware: they can be conscious – although, this is not empty awareness, pure awareness. In Buddhism, consciousness is not regarded as the ultimate state of being, as it is a changeable state.

The use of words and the context in which they are set is of paramount importance, because we can be easily deceived, misunderstand and become confused. Our limited view of our true potential is constantly being demoted through the media; “Live the dream!” When we adhere mechanically to learned definitions, this can obscure actual experience. Word have many meanings and can only hint at genuine experience.

From a Buddhist point of view, the body and mind are controlled by eight consciousnesses, five of the input senses and three of mind: perception, memory and judgement. Perception, memory and judgement become the vehicles for setting the pattern of behaviour, which is our personality – our type of programme. We all fall into types – we only think we are individuals, whereas we are individuals only when we realise our origin: then we are original!

Most humans function on quite a mechanical level. Few know the full potential of humanity, which to realise our true nature of empty essence, cognisant nature and unlimited empathetic compassion, which is unconditional love.

A machine can only mimic these qualities. On observation, when we function mechanically in order to merely exist, we become robotic and are unable to help ourselves: for instance, narcissists lack empathy, manipulate and need constant admiration.

Robots mimic mechanical human behaviour. The point of robots is to replace humans as they can process information faster without taking tea breaks. The question is, for whose benefit?

Machines cannot have understanding, empathy, compassion or love. They can only appear to understand, be empathetic, show compassion and love. Again, this is the characteristic of most humans; we appear to be caring.

“I think, therefore I am” is not realisation of reality. Realisation of reality is knowing the knower does not exist. A machine would ‘blow its circuits’ with this unanswerable conundrum. The same process would also blow a human’s circuits, with the realisation that there is no knower but merely knowing…that is the path to enlightenment!

A machine cannot understand the shock of crazy wisdom. It cannot become enlightened, thereby realising its true nature – and neither can an ignorant human.

But enlightenment remains our true potential.

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ULTIMATE CRAZINESS

Ultimate Craziness

There is no one seeing
and
there is no one seeing it.

There is just seeing.

Just seeing, clear view, pure awareness, pure consciousness, higher self, the father, God … are just fancy-schmancy words for something indescribable. Descriptions only confuse and divide.

Pure seeing is present all the time, and so it is timeless and beyond description. Pure seeing is dropping seeing. We cannot look for what we are. Now, that is crazy!

When natural clarity is cloaked in fancy-schmanciness,
there can be no recognition.
If there is recognition of natural clarity – celebrate!

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CHRISTIANS AND BUDDHISTS DO NOT UNDERSTAND

Christians and Buddhists Do Not Understand
that they tread the same path of confusion,
following religious translations rather than direct experience.

A Buddhist cannot disagree with the Gospel of Thomas:
These are the secret sayings which the living Jesus spoke and which
Didymos Judas Thomas wrote down.
http://gnosis.org/naghamm/thomas_poxy.htm

Jesus said, “The pharisees and the scribes have taken the keys of knowledge (gnosis) and hidden them. They themselves have not entered, nor have they allowed to enter those who wish to. You, however, be as wise as serpents and as innocent as doves.”
This is still happening today, with the dumbing-down of society through a multitude of distractions.

His disciples said, “When will you become revealed to us and when shall we see you?”
Jesus said, “When you disrobe without being ashamed and take up your garments and place them under your feet like little children and tread on them, then will you see the son of the living one, and you will not be afraid.”
When we admit that we are enslaved by emotions and confusion, we will find confidence.

Jesus said, “No prophet is accepted in his own village; no physician heals those who know him.”
When we are acquainted with someone, we only see their faults.

“If you do not fast as regards the world, you will not find the kingdom. If you do not observe the Sabbath as a Sabbath, you will not see the father.”
If we don’t find the time to practice regularly and abstain from obsessive worldly activities, we will never recognise emptiness.

His disciples said to him, “Show us the place where you are, since it is necessary for us to seek it.”
He said to them, “Whoever has ears, let him hear. There is light within a man of light, and he lights up the whole world. If he does not shine, he is darkness.”
Clarity is the light that is passed on. If we have no clarity, we have no light.

His disciples questioned him and said to him, “Do you want us to fast? How shall we pray? Shall we give alms? What diet shall we observe?”
Jesus said, “Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate, for all things are plain in the sight of heaven. For nothing hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain without being uncovered. Recognize what is in your sight, and that which is hidden from you will become plain to you. For there is nothing hidden which will not become manifest.”
Everything arises within emptiness.

“If those who lead you say to you, ‘See, the kingdom is in the sky,’ then the birds of the sky will precede you. If they say to you, ‘It is in the sea,’ then the fish will precede you. Rather, the kingdom is inside of you, and it is outside of you. When you come to know yourselves, then you will become known, and you will realize that it is you who are the sons of the living father. But if you will not know yourselves, you dwell in poverty and it is you who are that poverty.”
We will recognise our true nature by realising its relative and ultimate aspects.
This is our wealth.

And he said, “Whoever finds the interpretation of these sayings will not experience death.”
Turning words into experience and experience into wisdom, there is no such thing as death.

“Let him who seeks continue seeking until he finds. When he finds, he will become troubled. When he becomes troubled, he will be astonished, and he will rule over the All.”
Once we realise our true nature, sadness arises and that is compassion. In that realisation, nothing can control us.

 

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THE PURPOSE OF ROUTINE RITUAL

The Purpose Of Routine Ritual

To counteract the effects of misplaced energy of body, speech and mind during daily activities when our actions are self centred, we engage in routine prayers, pujas and meditation. This routine ritual calms the body, inspires speech and stills the mind.

The purpose of routine ritual is to break down the habitual pattern of self admiration which is the cause of confusion, leading us down the path of narcissism without us even noticing.

Routine ritual is a purification, a healing activity. It releases stress and rebalances the system (however, if ritual is not understood properly, it can be the cause of stress and anxiety).

After a session, we notice that we are calmer, creating the merit of good karma. Calmer karma is good wealth! 😉 Because we feel an abundance, we can be generous towards others. This is goodness ‘going viral’.

Narcissism: Excessive interest and admiration of oneself and one’s physical appearance. Extreme selfishness, with a grandiose view of one’s own talents and a craving for admiration. Self-centred and lacking empathy towards others. Cannot stop wanting to manipulate situations.

This is the purpose of simple, routine ritual
to counteract wrong doing.

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IS GOD A MEME?

Is God A Meme?*

Is the ‘idea’ of God a meme? Not that God is a meme: ‘God’ is a word to describe a quality of pure existence. We can experience pure existence by recognising our own pure awareness, and so we are the very nature of God.

“The Kingdom of God is inside you and all around you,
not in a mansion of wood and stone.
Split a piece of wood and God is there.
Lift a stone and you will find God.”
Gospel of Thomas

In the very act of splitting, lifting and seeing, our true nature is revealed. We are not separate from that which is seeing and that which is found.

However, if this truth has been hijacked in order for us to believe that pure existence is outside our own pure nature, then we have been led astray for thousands of years. This meme requires intercessors who keep us as lowly sinners who will never understand (it wasn’t until the 16th century that ordinary people were able to read the bible themselves) – when we can, in reality, have direct experience.

To take Christ’s quotation, “I and my father are one”: From a Buddhist perspective, this means that ‘I’ – a relative identity – is no different from my absolute nature. This is the unity of the two truths: by virtue of one, the other is known.

Translations can be hijacked to serve those who would want power over us by separating us from our true nature, thus confusing the mind. Our only crime is that we are too willing to follow and too accepting of ‘knowing our place’, which means consenting to be at the bottom of the pile. Throughout history, social engineering has played with society, and in modern times it’s easy to see memes being transmitted through social media: the psychology of feeding additions through “going viral”.

We can break out of memes by cutting through concepts and meditating on emptiness, revealing pure awareness.

There is nothing in which to believe. There is nothing to obey except love.

*A meme is an idea, behaviour, or style that is meant to replicate, spreading from person to person within a culture. It comes from the word “mimeme” – to imitate – and was first used by Richard Dawkin. A meme acts as a unit for carrying cultural ideas, symbols, or practices that can be transmitted from one mind to another through writing, speech, gestures, rituals or other imitable phenomena with a mimicked theme. Supporters of the concept regard memes as cultural analogues to genes in that they self-replicate, mutate, and respond to selective pressures.

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POINTLESS LIFE?

Pointless Life?

The human potential is complete enlightenment – to be a Buddha. This is one who has awakened to inner clarity and dissolved all confusion through the continuity of clarity at every moment, which is the practice of purification.

However, we decided to spend this precious time as humans in pointless pursuits and confusion. Traditionally, this is described as going to an island full of jewels, but coming away empty-handed. Our collective karma has decided that this is the Age of Confusion.

It’s not my fault!”
Actually, it is down to us. Even the Buddha can’t ‘do’ enlightenment for us. A Buddha can only show the way, and then we tread the path, which is undoing our own confusion to which we consented.

How do I start?”
We start by finding instruction that we feel we can trust. Much will depend on our temperament: we either employ the path of inner peace to realise clarity, or we employ the path of clarity to realise inner peace. The result is the same: Mahamudra and Dzogchen are different methods to achieve the same end.

What do I trust?”
Your own awareness.

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THE SECRET OF TIBETAN BUDDHISM IS…

The Secret of Tibetan Buddhism is…
that the three wisdoms are the three poisons.

The three wisdoms are
Empty essence, cognisant nature and unconfined compassion.
The three poisons are
ignorance,* desire and aversion.

Our absolute being is wisdom.
Our relative being is the poisons.**

However, they are not different.
The poison is the medicine.
This is the meaning of the two truths as a unity.

Pure awareness sees and an emotion arises:
that is when a new timeline can open up!

The very moment an emotion arises, the mind brightens with the energy of clarity. A new timeline or cross road occurs, and we break the cycle of samsaric existence. But this is just a moment, and if it passes unnoticed, the emotions explode into the same old dark, habitual prison. If, however, we know the nature of the three wisdom (the kayas), energy creates space and we return to wisdom. It is instantaneous. We still have to respond to the situation but there is now no obsessional clinging, no aftertaste.

Before we can understand the process of the unity of the three wisdoms and the three negative poisonous emotions, we must recognise them as being separate so that we can understand how they are seen as a unity. This is why we need subtle instruction in discerning the difference between the 8th and 9th consciousnesses – the Alaya Vijnana and Rigpa (see archives for further information under The Eight Consciousness)

Our absolute being is empty, pure, aware and compassionate expression. Because we identify with a mental self image, we forget this absolute nature and become protective of an acquired nature, our baby. We become narcissistic. Because of this, ignorance, desire and aversion therefore arose, and are reinforced at every moment in an habitual continuity, each moment of ignorance creating the next moment of ignorance, filling emptiness.

Here is the correlation:

Desire = Emptiness.
Our ‘being’ is Empty.
Desire fills emptiness with concepts.

Aversion = Awareness.
Our ‘being’ is Awareness.
Aversion arises when an “I” starts comparing and judging.

Ignorance = Compassion.
Our ‘being’ is Compassion.
Ignorance arises when empty awareness forgets its true nature, and that of others.

Emptiness is Ultimate truth.
Awareness is Relative truth.
Compassion is the unity of ultimate and relative truths.

If we remain just in Emptiness, we can become spaced out = Nihilism.
If we remain just in Awareness, everything – including ourselves – will appear solid = Eternalism.

Real love is the wisdom-understanding of the middle way.

* ignorance: forgetting or not knowing, giving rise to the emotions of pride, jealousy, desire, fear…
** ‘poison’ in the sense of something that has a destructive or corrupting influence.

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BEING OF BENEFIT

Being of Benefit

The more we practise,
the more we benefit,
the more we want to practise,
the more others benefit,
the more we practise.

Practice is taming the mind, and the benefit is insight. We have to be careful when revealing insights to others to avoid appearing odd, as this can cause uncertainty in the Dharma, and in us. Our practice will then be doing harm. Once others receive the wrong impression, this uncertainty sticks! First impressions count.

Note to self:
Insight is the natural outcome of practice and of having received teachings.
It is our wealth. Be careful how the wealth is spent. 😀

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THE LIFE WE LEAD WAS BUILT BY OTHERS

The Life We Lead Was Built By Others

The life we lead was build by others.
We follow and suffer in silence,
dumbing ourselves down as a result.

Resting in pure awareness, insight just happens
and we lose the dumbness and suffering as a result.

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ARE WE OUT OF OUR MINDS?!

Are We Out Of Our Minds?!

Of course we are…
we just have to know it
as we don’t know it yet.

We may have the idea that we are outside our mind,
but we still believe that we are the mind.

The mind and the nature of mind.
Contents and that which is aware of the contents.
Concepts and empty awareness.

The path is the unity of the two.
When this is recognised, then we know.

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THE PATH

The Path

“The lotus needs the mud in order to grow, but it is not stained by the mud.”
“Through knowledge we find the method,
and the method becomes an aid to increase knowledge.”
Tsoknyi Rinpoche.

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ORDER OUT OF CHAOS

Order Out Of Chaos
Magic trick…and real magic!

This is a motto circulating on the internet which has two distinct aspects, negative and positive. If we substitute the word ‘order’ for ‘control’, we see the picture more clearly.

Order out of Chaos – Hegel style.
Hegel’s reasoning (dialectic): The manipulation of people’s pattern of thought and behaviour. When we fight against or defend an idea, we are consenting to play our role in designed chaos. Dis-order is brought about so that people will demand order. The price of ‘order’ always entails a handing over of control and loss of freedom, and we don’t realise that it’s happening. It’s a magic trick.

Order out of Chaos – Dzogchen style.
Dzogchen reasoning: In the very acknowledgment of chaos – which is an illusion – the essence of awareness is realised. Chaos itself is the very tool for enlightenment. That is wisdom. That is real magic!

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HUMANS ARE EASILY DIVIDED

Humans Are Easily Divided

Even when we meet someone whom we feel thinks the same way as us, we notice divisions occurring. These may even become hostile. We appear to be so close, but there is a ‘backing away’, a fear felt. Why?

That which we feel to be precious, we do not want to be contaminated. If we can take teachings from everyone and everything, then our understanding can be enhanced. This doesn’t mean we are satisfied with what is said, but we are testing our compassion and remaining in pure awareness. We are not disturbed, so that neither stress nor anxiety arise. We might find that we need to leave well enough alone, finding the right balance according to our capacity.

If we cannot liberate a desire, we abandon it.
If we can liberate the desire, without having to and abandon it, then we are using sensual objects as the path.

We have to remember that careless conduct can cause others to lose their faith.

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SPECULATION IS TIRING

Speculation Is Tiring

Speculation, concepts and philosophies are tiring: they are the cause of inner and outer conflicts. But true experience of awareness – or rather, ‘pure awareness’ – is energising, and is the source of inner joy, as contaminations of speculation, concepts and philosophies have dropped away. ‘Pure awareness’ is our true nature, for without this ‘pure awareness’ nothing would be known, would it?

Pure awareness it what we are: it is non-duality.

This is missed by most of us, as we do not recognise this pure nature, and so are only concerned with that of which pure awareness is aware. So we become stuck in a material world, beautiful though it may be, and the outcome is conditional happiness; a happiness that relies on conditions. When these conditions are taken away, we become unhappy, not noticing that unconditional happiness has been present all the time! The same applies to love. And true love is concerned with others’ suffering, and the cause of that suffering.

The place in which we live is a mess. The previous owner – the ‘I’ – has allowed things to run down, so there is much tidying to do in the garden. It’s a labour of love.

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MY ROOT TEACHER

My Root Teacher
is
Tsoknyi Rinpoche

Without his intelligent commentaries on wisdom,
I would not know the essence of awareness,
for which I am deeply grateful.

Practice is having compassion for and letting go of anything
that obscures the recognition of this essence.

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THE DHARMA ISN’T FOR SLEEPWALKERS

The Dharma Isn’t For Sleepwalkers

Tibetan practitioners go to charnel grounds (graveyards) or other inauspicious places to train to bring about realisation, as this strengthens resolve. Energy in the mind after liberation can then be used for the benefit of others. We need energy in order to transmit energy in a beneficial way.

Our everyday life is a charnel ground. If we care to look, we see that we are bombarded psychologically by words, sounds and chemicals that are dulling us or creating anxiety and fear*. If we choose to be unaware, our bodies, speech and minds will be contaminated.

Spirituality is not a delicate thing that has to be protected, as in “I must protect my soul”. There is no soul to capture. ‘Soul’ is just a vague word with many meanings: it’s a concept that creates fear, confusion and control.

Cutting through ignorance requires the strong sword of wisdom. At the beginning of our spiritual journey, we need soft toys to feel comfortable, but when we recognise the energy of the essence of awareness – compassion – we strengthen our resolve to help all sentient beings.

*George Orwell and Aldous Huxley knew all about this.

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WE NEED INTELLIGENT STUBBORNNESS

We Need Intelligent Stubbornness

We need to be determined in order to succeed. Being too open, we can fall into confusion, lose direction and dither. If we feel that karma is something that happens now and again (or that God’s hand is sometimes involved and sometimes not), then we are part timers. Mediocre intelligence comes with problems which are revealed in confusion and vagueness. We lose our way if we choose to practise now and again: we need to be vigilant now, and again now…

The waves of karma are happening at every moment. We are creating those waves now, which bear fruition in either fortunate or unfortunate karma. Every moment is a product of karma and our every reaction is generated by our past. That is why, when we pause and stop reaction in its tracks, we break the chains of reaction! We prevent more of the same.

To get to our destination, we need a firm sense of direction without a clinging residue: if we don’t clean our tools, they will remain dirty. Every moment counts.

Practitioners of the Buddha’s teaching want to achieve liberation for all. We need to be convinced of this and to practise completely and cleanly.

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THE OUTCOME OF ‘KNOWING’ IS COMPASSION

The Outcome of ‘Knowing’ Is Compassion

It doesn’t matter how much we think we know,
if compassion isn’t present,
we are no more than clever, tinkling bells.

Teachings are given so that we become a light for others,
passing on the light rather than our light.
Light is not to dazzle but to illuminate,
so that others may pass on the light.

The light of love is what we are.
There’s no getting away from it.

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ONCE WE KNOW, WE CANNOT NOT KNOW

Once We Know, We Cannot Not Know

Whenever we hear, read, touch, smell or taste something
and understand it,
we get the transmission of pointing out
like a bolt of lightening.

We then cannot say that we don’t know.

As we progress – and we will, through meditation – we become more responsive and less reactive. We see more and react less in accordance with our previous programming, our karmic production. Even if we feel that we are more reactive and less responsive, there is still awareness of that fact, and that conflict is our path. Let’s be honest, old habits do flare up…

Awareness and clarity are auspicious signs: “auspicious: conducive to success, a divine sign.” This beneficial motivation is achieved through the merit of compassionate activity. This is ‘waking up’. Unfortunately, waking up can be annoying to others (make that very annoying), as they are fixed or locked into a matrix – a cultural, social, or political environment.

There may be times when we wish to go back to sleep and have fun like we used to, rather than seeing so much suffering, but that is to live in ignorance in the corporate prison. The corporate ideal is based on fear-and-hope mongering, facilitated by sweet-talking politicians and media personalities convincing us into submission, to send us back to sleep; “Move along; there’s nothing to see here.” Such activity is a bad virus, and we can see one of the outcomes in how hostile people are online.

There is no going back, especially if we care about the next generation, which – if we believe in rebirth – we will be part of. Sometimes, we just have to let go of old ‘friends’. If we feel strong, confident and compassionate, we can mix with all sorts – enjoy sports, watch a film, have a meal out – and not lose our sacred awareness.

Once we see the brutality and corruption that is destroying this world, we cannot turn a blind eye.

We should be joyous now that we see
– painful though it is.
Knowingness is ever present.
It is always with you
because it is you.

Not knowing is a temporary affair.
Knowingness is forever.

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THE DILEMMA OF RECEIVING THE POINTING OUT INSTRUCTION

The Dilemma Of Receiving The Pointing Out Instruction

The dilemma is that we may either expect too much and miss the simplicity, or it may go over our head and we miss the point – but nevertheless, a good seed has been planted. Much depends on the teacher – and probably the translator – and much depends on the student.

I have been given the pointing out instruction alongside people who have come to Buddhism for the very first time (lucky individuals!) and people who have been practising for forty years (slowcoaches like me).

It may just be about being in the right place at the right time. For most, the pointing out instruction is like a good seed, and will give us a sense of direction. Sometimes, after much searching and heart ache, it is seen unexpectedly.

When one of my teachers was young, he crept out from his monastery one night to visit a lama who had a very scary reputation (some teachers are like that – they talk straight, which means that if you ask a question, you cannot ignore the answer, and so you have to be careful what you ask!). This lama did something unexpected – he served tea and said nothing. After they had drunk their tea, the scary lama just said, “It is done!” and my teacher thought, “What did he do? What did he do?” – he couldn’t think of anything. That was transmission by gesture. Years later, when my wife and I were his students and doing some building work for him, he put his arms around us and said, “You are more like friends than students.” We left and went for tea, and just stared at each other: we couldn’t think of anything. Perhaps it was the tea! 😀 (the scary lama was Khenpo Goncha).

It was only years later that I recognised that same feeling when receiving the pointing out instruction formally. The pointing out instruction is a little shock to the mind. We may or may not notice it.

In theory, it is awareness looking at itself and finding nothing – emptiness – but these are just words. The pointing out instruction is an experience. The experience is silence of sacred space. (maybe the sacred space came first!). That sacred space is clarity, and the pointing out instruction is dropped in so that that clarity is recognised: it is a direct transmission, and is clearly seen.

Incidentally, a few years later, the teacher who called me ‘friend’ suddenly – after eleven years – threw me out! That was one crazy shock 😉

There is a difference between ‘knowing’ and ‘pure knowingness’.
Expect the unexpected.

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TOWN YOGI

Town Yogi
who doesn’t want to practise

Some of us can’t practise, won’t practise, or don’t see the point of practising, but we still want to know. Well, we can! All that is needed is for ultimate reality to be pointed out, and then it is our job to remember and sustain it. It’s a back door to practising. 🙂 We are practising remembering and seeing. If we find this too difficult or our mind is still confused, we then use formal practices. I do both.

As individuals, formal practice prepares us with the right motivation and understanding for the moment of recognition of our true nature. Does it work? I’m not sure. However, when the right moment arrives, and the pointing out instruction is given, then that moment can be quite powerful.

Between you and me, my response was, “Is that all?”!

This approach may not work for everyone as the mind still needs convincing, so study and practice are needed.

Usually, the pointing out instruction is given within a special atmosphere so that we take it in…we ‘get it’! This is why it is regarded as secret. The short text used is often, “The Lamp That Dispels Darkness” by Mipham Rinpoche.

It is not understood through intelligence but by direct experience. Throughout this blog, there are expressions of this, without formality. It is merely awareness looking at itself and finding nothing but awareness which is recognised and indescribable.

“Is that all?”
“That is all.”

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WANT SOMETHING NICE TO HAPPEN TODAY?

Want Something Nice To Happen Today?

Then do something nice for someone else!

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STRESS INFLAMES THE BRAIN

Stress Inflames the Brain

Longterm stress erodes memory,
which means we neither function properly nor think straight –
and we live in a world of stress!

Being aware of stress and the causes of stress, and finding a solution to relieve that stress, is a psychological – and ultimately, a spiritual – matter, culminating in the cessation of stress.

Acknowledging this stress is the first of the four noble truths taught by the Buddha.
This is why we rest the mind and body in meditation.

Meditation – going where no pill has gone before! 😀

Notes from https://news.osu.edu/news/2016/03/01/long-term-stress-erodes-memory/ :

Recent research by Ohio State University has shown that sustained stress erodes memory and that the immune system plays a key role in the ensuing cognitive impairment. It has established the relationship between short-term memory and prolonged stress as a result of inflammation caused by the immune system’s response to outside pressure.

Long term psychosocial stress continued to have an effect on the development of new neurons for a period of 28 days after the stress had ended.

The inflammation and memory loss did disappear when anti-inflammatories were administered, but the depressive-like behaviour and social avoidance remained, showing that post-stress memory loss is linked to the immune system.

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INTENSE CONFIDENCE & INTENSE DOUBT

Intense Confidence & Intense Doubt

Writing is talking to oneself,
mulling over experiences and possibilities:

“It can’t possibly be that simple!”
“Why so much religious elaboration on emptiness?”
“It costs nothing to be what we naturally are.”
“Why do I keep meditating when there is no meditator?”
“I know I am mistaken.”
“Compassion for ignorance.”
“I can do no more than give up.”
“Joy in depression.”
“Knowing dispels not knowing.”
“We cannot say we are not aware!”
“The miracle of waking up is enough.”

Intense doubt & intense confidence put us in tune,
by being not too tight and not too loose.

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WHAT IS SO SPECIAL ABOUT US?

What Is So Special About Us?

It is hard to believe that everyone is a potential Buddha,
an enlightened being.
So what on earth are we doing with our lives?

The Buddha taught the path to enlightenment:
Look into awareness, finding nothing but emptiness,
and stay there.

The hallmark of this decadent age of deception is intensity.
Intense negativity and intense, painful emotions –
but also, intense wisdom!

If we are able to practise the Dharma,
we can use this intensity to strengthen and gain accomplishment faster.
Human means and capacity have increased.

The problem is,
Who are you going to believe?

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OUR INTENTION IS TO BE HAPPIER

Our Intention Is To Be Happier
But how?

Doing spiritual practices to be happier is good. But first we need to be clear about the obstacles to realising the happiness that is already present, but goes unnoticed. If our intention to be happy overrides our clarity, then these obstructions will remain, obscuring recognition of genuine happiness. To be genuinely happy, we have first to clear the obstacles, the klesha.

Klesha is a Sanskrit word for the mental states that cloud the mind – such as anxiety, fear, anger, jealousy, desire, depression, afflictions, defilements, destructive emotions, disturbing emotions, negative emotions, mind poisons – and manifest in unwholesome actions. These are, in fact, the root of our problems, and all derive from the three basic poisons of ignorance, attachment, and aversion, the main root being ignorance of our true nature.

Happiness is not realised by gaining anything: we arrive there by losing attachment to everything. We become happier by getting rid of our attitude – our stored-up preconceived ideas that create reactions which we then maintain, through ignorance. These reactions come from forgetting, or not applying, the six perfections: these are not an imposition on us or a set of rules to obey. They are our natural manner of expressing wisdom. We are happier by expressing compassion – happiness in caring. When I sharpen a tool, I am happy that it cuts better, and the tools sounds happier as well!

We are happier when we let go.

The six perfections – giving of oneself, morality, patience, diligence, concentration and wisdom insight – are the six elements of compassion. Compassion is realised through acknowledging empty awareness within all beings. Empty awareness is our absolute nature which is naturally and unconditionally happy, as it does not rely on conditions in order to be happy. Happiness is uncontaminated pure awareness.

When we become empty of any attitude, we are in happiness. We are in love.

As we progress (if we progress 😉 ) the knife-edged path we walk gets sharper and sharper, and so we have to become more and more careful of our conduct. Assimilating the teachings takes time, and we gradually upgrade and begin to see more clearly. Meditation in the method to achieve this, and our conduct is the continuity of the meditation. This is being mindful. Gradually, we reach empty awareness of non-meditation, non-duality. We read between the lines to reach higher levels.

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DIFFICULTY IN TALKING TO OTHERS?

Difficulty In Talking To Others?

That is the price of sanity.

Waking up has its problems
because compassion is challenging.
It is an insane world,
run by and for the insane.

The conventional world will talk for hours about trivia. Any discussion of a spiritual nature, which is true healing, is difficult because we each have our own private view. Even when we do find someone who is interested in spirituality or in meditation, the conversation is still uneasy, and goes nowhere. None of us like being lectured to, unless we choose to go to a lecture!

We may feel isolated – and this happens even among people who feel a similar way. There will be differences. This is why there are so many traditions, and saying that we need ‘harmony in diversity’ still won’t make it happen. There will always be divisions…perhaps we don’t all come from the same place! 😀

We practise alone,
and we progress alone.
As a community, it’s sad to say that we remain ignorant
because there will always be subtle frictions.

We have to be skilful when communicating with others. This is the whole point of compassion, and the way in which we achieve compassion is through inner confidence and inner joy. This naturally comes about through understanding the nature of everything; pure awareness of emptiness.

C.S Lewis gave a lecture* where he spoke about the human desire to join the ‘Inner Ring’ and the fear we have of being left out, and how this obsession exposes circles within circles which are exclusive by nature. To find true satisfaction, we drop that longing to be on the inside and ‘in the know’ and instead, love whatever presents itself, getting on with it as best we can: in this way, we find we are naturally the centre of a true inner circle of satisfaction. Others may be attracted, or not – either way, it doesn’t matter because:

This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.”
William Shakespeare

Sanity is being true to our natural essence.
Insanity is trying to impress others’ insanity.

* http://www.lewissociety.org/innerring.php

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