Tag Archives: KINDNESS

INDIFFERENCE/COLDNESS – EMPATHY-WARMTH

Posted on December 27, 2025 by tony

Indifference/Coldness – Empathy/Warmth Indifference is holding back; empathy is reaching out. A lack of humanity manifests as a lack of compassion of fellow-feelings. There’s a lack of kindness, consideration, understanding, tolerance, good-heartedness … it’s the psychology of coldness. Empathy is … Continue reading →

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THE BUDDHA WAS AN EXPERT BUT …

Posted on January 22, 2023 by tony

The Buddha Was An Expert But … The Buddha was an expert, but he said, “Don’t take my word for the truth; test it for yourself”. If he said that, then don’t take any expert’s word for it. If we … Continue reading →

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EVIDENCE OF SPIRITUALITY

Posted on September 24, 2021 by tony

Evidence Of Spirituality The evidence of spiritual presence is genuine kindness, without any standoffishness. We may appear to be kind, but are we actually kind? The evidence of knowingness is genuine kindness, without any standoffishness. We may appear to know … Continue reading →

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ARE YOUR TITS TOO BIG FOR SPIRITUALITY?!*

Posted on August 28, 2021 by tony

Are Your Tits Too Big For Spirituality?!* Spiritual practice isn’t about how you look; it’s about how you look! We shouldn’t feel that have to develop ‘a look’ to fit into a group but, unfortunately, many do, adopting a sort of … Continue reading →

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POWER WITHOUT CLARITY

Posted on July 8, 2021 by tony

Power Without Clarity Power without clarity;clarity without emptiness;emptiness without wisdom;wisdom without kindness. All this is futile (from Latin: futilis – ‘leaky’). Wisdom-kindness is the real power(from Latin: posse -‘be able’). Wanting power in the material world is a gross level of existence,and way, way, way … Continue reading →

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IN MEDITATION, THERE IS NO MEDITATOR

Posted on April 16, 2021 by tony

In Meditation, There Is No Meditator If we think we are meditating, that is not meditating. In meditation, there is nothing to refer to; meditation is to remind us that all mental activities cease, allowing pure consciousness just to be. … Continue reading →

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WE MAY BE TOLD WHAT TO DO

Posted on July 31, 2020 by tony

We May Be Told What To Do We may be told what to do and how to think, but we shouldn’t forget our common sense of kindness.

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HOW CAN I BECOME PURE?

Posted on May 27, 2020 by tony

How Can I Become Pure? We are nothing but purity – pure consciousness – for, without that, we wouldn’t be able to see clearly. We just have to get the picture straight, as it’s a bit wonky at the moment … Continue reading →

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POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY AFFECT OUR MIND

Posted on November 20, 2019 by tony

Positivity and Negativity Affect Our Mind Positivity and negativity – good and evil – are what life is all about. Clarity and whatever obscures that clarity; it is that simple. Positivity is seeing clearly and understanding a situation for the … Continue reading →

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CAN WE BE TOO KIND?

Posted on April 26, 2016 by tony

Can We Be Too Kind? The word “too” seems to hold the answer. The level of kindness depends on the understanding of the individual applying skilful clarity in order to benefit a situation. Not too tight and not too loose. … Continue reading →

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SPIRITUAL CONDUCT

Posted on February 5, 2016 by tony

Spiritual Conduct Padmasambava: “Descend with the view, while ascending with the conduct”. This means allowing absolute compassion to pervade all our actions. Learning to be kind and express love in a troubled world is challenging to a spiritually-inclined person. ‘The troubled … Continue reading →

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WE ALL HAVE AGENDAS

Posted on April 5, 2013 by tony

We all have agendas.  We all have agendas, fixations, defilements, attitudes, confusions, wounds…this is simply part of being human. It’s important is to acknowledge them, but we don’t have to obsess about them. Be kind to yourself: this is what … Continue reading →

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